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ItalianoKarmic, soulmate and twin flame relationship.
| Karmic Relationships 1. They repeat patterns. If you’re on and off in your relationship, that is major sign it’s a karmic one. If you seem to be experiencing the same kinds of relationship problems, that is also a big red flag. Such relationships repeat the same patterns and remain stagnant, because the only way you can grow from them is by letting go. 2. They are selfish. Karmic relationships do not respect healthy boundaries in their partners. They serve only their own self-interest and needs. They are the perfect template for forming abusive or co-dependent relationship complexes. While one person is very invested, the other person views it more as a convenience. 3. They are addictive. They are characterized by highs and lows of passionate intensity. One or both partners are more in love with the idea of love, based on superficial reasons such as good looks, popularity, social or professional status. 4. They are controlling. They are obsessive and all about ownership of your partner. The other person becomes the center of your universe, and the main source of your happiness. You put them on a pedestal, and are unable to see their flaws. 5. They feel destined. You think that you cannot live without this person, and feel like you both are somehow meant to be together. You cannot fathom why it keeps failing, and you keep trying and hoping to get it right. They are extremely hard to resist, and keep drawing you in, until you learn what you need to from it. 6. There is an instant connection. Such relationships are marked by an immediate attraction. This person feels perfect to you. It feels like you have known them before, and you become instantly attached to them. 7. They create dependency. You begin to feel consumed by the relationship, and it begins to occupy your thoughts all the time. You can’t help handing them all the power. You become mentally, physically and emotionally dependent on this person. 8. They bring out your worst fears. They bring to the surface all the things you are deathly afraid of. Fear of abandonment, fear of commitment, fear of rejection, fear of loss, fear of emotional engulfment, and all the skeletons hiding in your closet. 9. They are irrational. They hold a mirror to your worst vulnerabilities and ugly insecurities. You start acting unlike yourself, and do things that you wouldn’t normally do. 10. They reveal your dark side. They show you your most undesirable and difficult characteristics that you were previously unaware of. They painfully remind you how human you actually are. 11. They are tumultuous. Such relationships are incredibly volatile, erratic and unpredictable. The best thing you can do for yourself is to identify such a relationship, and learn to let it go for your own good. 12. They push your buttons. The main purpose of these relationships is for you to learn how to properly love yourself and others, such that you stop trying to control your circumstances, become the master of your own ego, and focus on working on yourself. 13. They do not last. This person is not your forever person, how much ever you want to hope, wish and believe in your fairytale ending. Contrary to what you see on television and media, such relationships are born out of conflict and end in conflict. They are extremely unhealthy, and usually do not last. Soulmate Relationships 1. You’re no longer plagued with anxiety each time you think about your future. Suddenly you realize that no matter what happens… everything will be just fine. You have a shared vision of the future and what it will be. 2. There are many things that you no longer worry about, actually. Like your insecurities or whether you are “good enough”, social media, or other people’s opinions in general. The relationship itself is much easier than you expected it to be and you don’t have the same doubts you’ve had before. 3. You have a sincere, deep respect for each other. Even when you disagree, you handle conflict without being harsh or punitive. 4. In fact, you bring out the best in each other. You aren’t afraid to challenge them because you know how much they are capable of. You only want what is best and won’t hesitate to give them the little push that they sometimes need. 5. You can’t believe how quickly you felt comfortable around them. From the beginning of the relationship you both felt as if you’d been dating for years. 6. You understand each other’s emotions in a way you’ve never experienced before. You both know how to respond when the other is feeling sad, angry, or even happy. Communication is never an issue and you aren’t afraid to have even the tough conversations. 7. You connect on every level possible; emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually, sexually, and intellectually. Most importantly… your souls are connected. You can hear and feel what they are thinking before it is even expressed verbally. The moment you see them you know exactly how their day was. 8. You frequently find yourself feeling amazed by them, wondering how you got so lucky. 9. You are their number one fan, and they are yours. The support and encouragement are endless, and you know they are always in your corner. 10. There is a textbook balance of strength and weakness. When you’re confronted by the most stressful or challenging moments, their strength pulls you through. Likewise, you are the one they seek for comfort and courage, because together you are unstoppable. 11. Being with them brings a sense of peace and well-being that is enigmatic. Their presence alone generates a feeling of security unlike anything you’ve ever felt. 12. They are your best friend and partner-in-crime. You’re not afraid to be vulnerable. You’ve seen each other at your absolute worst, and it only made you love them more. 13. You just know. “When you know, you know” no longer sounded like such a cliché. You had a gut feeling from the start and everything fell into place effortlessly. Twin flame 1. Your true twin flame will be perfectly in sync with you; they are your destiny and you are theirs. Your false twin flame will appear to be your “perfect mirror” at the beginning – until they reveal their true self. Twin flames are said to be mirror each other physically, emotionally and spiritually. Meeting a true twin flame can feel like meeting your perfect half, as if you’ve known each other your whole lives, even if you’ve just met. It’s as if you’ve known each other from many different lifetimes – and your connection from the onset is downright electric. You finish each other’s sentences, know what the other is feeling or thinking, and are perfectly aligned in a way that might astonish even the most cynical of onlookers. 2. Your true twin flame will cause you to grow in healthy ways; your false twin flame will destroy you and cause you to self-destruct. While a true twin flame will feel like a safe haven, somewhere you can go for emotional shelter, your false twin flame will feel like an (albeit alluring) danger zone. With the latter, you’re perpetually walking on eggshells, biting your nails in anxiety, while with the former, you’re thrust into constructive self-examination and mutual growth. While it’s common for a journey with a twin flame to be somewhat tumultuous in that egos are being purged and traumas are surfacing to be healed, a true twin flame will never purposely set out to hurt you. A false twin flame, on the other hand, may deliberately create chaos in your life by gaslighting you, stonewalling you, provoking you and taunting you. They won’t have much empathy for your needs and they will subject you to unnecessary and excessive trauma. A true twin flame will cherish you even if they challenge you. You will feel comforted in the presence of a true twin flame, as if your soul has finally reached home after a long and arduous journey. 3. In a twin flame relationship, it’s common for there to be a chaser and a runner and for the roles to be reversed occasionally. However, in a false twin flame relationship, you’re always the one doing the chasing – and the person on the other end can’t be caught because they don’t really exist. The famous “runner-chaser” dynamic in a twin flame relationship is what causes a lot of confusion between true twin flames and false ones. Due to the intensity of the twin flame connection, it’s common for one or even both of the twin flames to run in the other direction because meeting them is like confronting all of your own weaknesses, wounds and even the strength of your own power – all reflected back to you. 4. With a true twin flame, your greater mission in this life will become clearer. A false twin flame may act as a catalyst for your mission, but in order to move forward with your purpose, you’ll have to let them go. A true twin flame merges with you on your mission – whatever that may be. Twin flames are the ultimate “power couple” in that where one is weak, the other is strong – so their combined gifts and talents are a strong force in the world that can create massive change and influence. A false twin flame holds you back from your dreams and goals, isolating you, demeaning you, and undermining you so they don’t lose control of you. In order to clear the path to achieve your dreams, you’ll eventually have to let the false twin flame go at some point. The life lessons you’ve had with them will have already served as the catalyst to your greater purpose by “purging” you and bringing up unhealed wounds. To hang onto a false twin flame beyond the expiration date of the relationship will hinder you and your dreams, not help you. A true twin flame, on the other hand, will make you feel like anything and everything is possible – they will encourage you to achieve greater heights, with or without them. They are designed to be your perfect counterpart – the person who will inspire you towards great personal growth. The experiences you share with them will give you life lessons that remind you of your own divinity rather than detract from it. They will contribute to your mission and you will find yourself achieving more together than you ever did when apart. 5. A false twin flame’s exit from your life clears the path to your true destiny; your true twin flame is your destiny – and union with them brings great joy, unconditional love and clarity, not confusion. Although some theories state that twin flames aren’t always necessarily meant to be in a romantic commitment, when true twin flames do come into true union after a period of separation, it is a union of perfect clarity and peace. The love between you two will be unconditional, but it won’t have to be – you won’t have to put in effort to make them decent people because they already are. The unconditional love between you both is a bond that you honor as sacred – whether it is platonic or romantic. Simply put, your life is happier with them in it because you’ve both already done the inner work to heal when you are finally united once more. The false twin flame, on the other hand, is usually incapable of this form of inner work and growth. Their demand for unconditional love is one based on their own personal interest; they just want you to tolerate their mistreatment in the name of love. Thankfully, their exit from your life is said to clear the path for your true twin flame, your true other half to enter. The way you feel around a true twin flame is that you will feel assured of your own worthiness – not constantly questioning your worth. A true twin flame will teach you unconditional love, but in the right way. In a true twin flame relationship, you will also be encouraged to love yourself just as you love the other. This is the type of love that will cause you to expand, not shrink. |
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