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Undergoing a vasectomy is more than just a medical procedure—it is a symbolic event that touches on identity, masculinity, and the creative force of life.

Masculinity has often been linked to the ability to create life, to be a potential source of new existence. But if the essence of being a man were solely defined by the biological ability to reproduce, would an infertile man be any less masculine? Hardly. So what does it truly mean to be a man? Is it strength? Protection? Presence? Responsibility?

Through this decision, I step into a new phase of my masculinity—one where my essence as a man is no longer defined by my biological capacity to reproduce, but by what I choose to create in the world in other ways. Being a father is not just about passing on genes; it is about showing up, leading, loving, and guiding. This is a role I already carry, and it does not change with this decision.

There is also a deep spiritual aspect in letting go of the ability to create life. A kind of death, yet a death that makes space for something else. In Tantra, we speak of directing our life force with awareness, of cultivating our inner power rather than being ruled by blind impulses. Perhaps this is also an invitation to look at my creative energy with new eyes—to create not through my body, but through my actions, my presence, and my love.

So today, I undergo a transformation. A farewell, but also a new beginning. A redefinition of what it means to be a man. And in that redefinition, there is freedom—the freedom to decide what my masculinity means, on my own terms.
beginning.

This is more than a medical decision—it’s a transformation.
Not an end. A new beginning.

Would you ever make this choice?”

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Masculinity is often tied to creation, to the ability to give life. But if that’s what makes a man… then what happens when that ability is gone?”

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